One of the presumptions of the self-employed small business owner is that they all have their kids work in the family business. When I get asked if I “put my kids to work,” I laugh because I couldn’t imagine my kids being helpful with my work. At. All. If you saw how they “help” around the house, you would know exactly what I mean.

The exception is my oldest daughter. At fifteen, she has been a primary babysitter for me for several years, caring for her three younger siblings when we are shooting weddings, portrait sessions and other work-related meetings.
On Saturday, she joined me in the role of an assistant. I usually shoot location portraits alone, hauling my own gear, doing my own set-up and tear-down. This adds work and a lot of time to an in-home session where I’m bringing lighting and backgrounds to use in the photographs. Having an extra set of hands on Saturday was amazing. I mean, seriously! A session that might take me two hours to do alone, I was able to get done in an hour with her help.
And while she doesn’t have aspirations of being a photographer herself, she loved seeing the cute kids I photographed, was happy to be paid with eating lunch out and generally enjoying hanging out with her mother for the day. I love that girl!


Our advice is to dress for the weather! If you plan to be outside for your portrait session or wedding, bring your coat. We don’t have to use it in the photographs, but you will be much more comfortable if you stay warm between shots. Even brides should wear a coat or have a heavy wrap. Thin shawls are great for inside, but won’t keep away the cold when moving to outdoor photography locations.


I love going into homes with a lot of wall portraits and smaller photographs displayed on shelves or counters. And, of course, Paula and Bill’s home is a great example.

