Do You Love Me? Could You Count The Ways?

Valentine’s Day- the holiday everyone loves to hate. 

Why? Pressure.

It’s the one day out of an entire year that you feel like your love is being quantified. And no one likes to feel like they don’t measure up.

There is a certain level of expectation on Valentine’s Day. You feel like you are being judged. You feel like you are being watched and compared, to see how well, how much, you love someone. 

But also, in turn, how much you are loved.

Which brings me to the reason why people love Valentine’s Day. 

Everyone wants to feel like they are worthy of being loved. 
Everyone wants to feel special and appreciated. 

When you look at it that way, giving in to the hype of Valentine’s Day is actually a small gesture that you can do for your honey that has big impact. 

The whole rest of the year can get crazy-busy, and the romantic gestures can get forgotten when you are pressed to deal with schedules and to-do lists. This could be the one day that someone feeling a bit unappreciated is hoping that their significant other will slow down and remember all the tender, mushy reasons they love each other.

So, how do you show it? Easy:
(he/she/him/her used interchangeably)

Open her car door

Hand over the remote and let him choose the show – or better yet, turn off the TV

Write her a letter – Don’t know what to write? Try listing the reasons she makes you feel good or what you love about her. Mail it. Or hide it in a place she’ll find it.

Flirt

Make him a scavenger hunt

Bake her dessert – even if it comes from a mix

Make him breakfast in bed – or if your schedules are different, have the coffee ready when he wakes up

Do a chore that is usually done by the other

Play a board game together

Have a movie night – at a theater or on the sofa

Cook dinner together

Stargaze

Play together- play pool or minigolf, go bowling or ice skating

Change your routine

Turn out the lights and spend the evening in firelight or candlelight

Say “I love you and I appreciate all that you do, even if I forget to tell you the rest of the year.”

See Keep The Romance Fires Burning post for more ideas.

By Any Other Name… | Hannah

A baby by any other name would smell as sweet.

I had the privilege of photographing my niece, Hannah, at 10 days old. During the session, I called her Hannah Banana, and her two sisters instantly thought that was a fabulous name. (Sorry, Amy!) My youngest is sometimes called Leo Burrito, paying homage to the blanket folding technique they teach you in the hospital, where you wrap the newborn up tight, like a baby burrito. So, now my other son wants to know what food rhymes with Henry.

  

More of Rebecca & Tim | Family

My goal with all my sessions is always to make images that people are proud to show off, that their family and friends “ooh and aah” over. It’s especially satisfying when you are able to do it for your best friends. 

Becca and I have been friends since we meet in college. I had to switch schools to get my degree in photography, yet we have always remained close. And, I love that our youngest children are only one day apart in age.

Becca and Tim were visiting this summer when we did their family session. I love that I was able to photograph Becca’s family. It means a lot when I can capture images for special friends that they love and adore.


The Reading Nook is Done!

 I had been searching online over a year ago for closet organizers when I came across a closet reading nook. It was a closet that had been turned into a cozy area for a child to hide away and read.

I fell in love with the idea. 

The closet that my middle two children share was driving me crazy. It was underused, and yet, it was always a mess. The idea of having a cute place to read sounded like a much better use of space. Plus, I knew the kids would use it for more than just reading.

It’s an inside joke at our house that I come up with the ideas and Chris has to figure out how to make them happen. It’s his own fault that I have complete faith in him- he always manages to pull through for me. He’ll tell you the playhouse he built the kids in the backyard was really for me. (And maybe it was– I’m waiting for the kids to be done with it so I can turn it into an adorable potting shed.) In the end, he always admits that they were great ideas.

For over a year, I asked Chris to redo the closet. He thought the idea was a little crazy at first. “Would the kids really use it, would they still have closet space, would it look out of place?” I assured him it would be cute and the kids would really use it. 

Finally, he gave in and went to work. And he came up with the perfect reading nook for the kids’ room.




I wanted to keep part of the closet for it’s traditional function of hanging clothes and storage. In the other part, I wanted a space big enough that a child could comfortable settle in to read. I also wanted it big enough that the space could double for playing. The design that Chris came up with was big enough to fit a parent and a child or two. Plus it included the book shelf, which was perfect for a place to set a cup of coffee when I’m reading to the kids.

The kids love it. My 12 year old is jealous and would love her own reading nook. I’d love to make her one, but alas, her closet is too small. She said she’d settle for a chair that hangs from the ceiling. I’ll get Chris on that….

*Chris has detailed images of the Reading Nook in progress. If there is interest, I can have him detail it out.

Katrina & Nick | Family | Downtown Madison

 Busy is the best word to describe life with four kids. Katrina and Nick stay busy with four boys, all under the age of seven. Getting them all to sit still in one place was the last thing on any of the boys’ minds. Luckily, we didn’t need them to stay still for too long.

   

A Photographer’s Child

We sometimes joke that we would like to invite strangers to dinner, just to get our children to behave through the whole meal.

It amazes people to find out that my kids don’t always cooperate for photographs. It’s true, they don’t. It’s because they know us.

We don’t scare them.

As clients will attest, I have plenty of patience with children, waiting for them to be ready for photographs.

But photographers’ children are different. They *know* the tricks. Don’t let this image fool you. As we tried to get our soon-to-be 5 year old and soon-to-be 3 year old to stand still, while looking at the camera, they worked just as hard to wiggle and squirm away from us. When we asked for a smile, we got a grimace, when we asked for a pose, we got action.

We are scheduling a reshoot.

And this time, I’m bringing bribes.

Or a stranger.

Family Love | Katie & Brett | Downtown Madison

I absolutely love to have clients that come back year after year. Working with a family, seeing their children grow, is so fun for me because they feel like more than clients. They feel like friends. Katie and Brett are a perfect example. I have been photographing Sam since he was a baby. Plus, I love that we can get together and chat like old friends.

These photographs will show you that Sam is going to be a little heart-breaker! And check out Sam’s shoes! Katie did an awesome job coordinating her family. The black, gray, and red were perfect together, with the red adding just the right amount of accent.  And again, check out those red shoes!

 
How cute is this face? I’m telling you, a total heart-breaker!

 I love the sky here!
Happy Anniversary to Brett & Katie!

Kera & Dan | Engaged!

Kera and Dan’s big day is quickly approaching! For their engagement session in August, we headed to downtown Madison.

For most of their session, the weather was great. There was one small bump, though. I have to admit, I have never had to find shelter and wait out a freak rain storm in the middle of a session before. However, that is what happened to us that day. Kera and Dan were wonderful about the “delay” and the rain stopped just in time for some sunset images by the lake, complete with a rainbow in the background! I think that means good luck with their marriage.

Here are some images from their engagement session.

Cathy & Mike | Family Portraits | Madison, WI

I love being able to capture family portraits. And, when a family of 6 is as easy to work with as Cathy & Mike’s was, it makes it a treat.
I worked with Cathy to fill the empty space in the entry area by her front door. For over two years, the nook had been empty, waiting for the right portrait to fill it. I custom designed a 33×38 canvas wrap that showcased her family to fit perfectly in that spot.
Now, the real reason to have your family portraits done is to show them off. So, to avoid any delay, we even hung her canvas for her when we delivered the order!