Tip #1: Make one long to-do list, utilize that to-do list to see what to work on next, but don’t be overwhelmed by the to-do list either. I find getting it out of your head and into a working list really does help, and if you think of something else you might want to do, put it on the list and then you can review and see if it meshes with all the other things you have left to do. Having multiple lists or a list that doesn’t make sense can be detrimental, so really try to keep in order of importance your list. At first it can seem a bit overwhelming, but by the end you will be glad to have had the to-do list.
Tip #2: Make decisions when the information is fresh in your mind- putting off decisions will only get you behind. I know you will want to think things over, I do as well. But waiting and waiting to make decisions until you have forgotten half the details from a vendor is not very effective either. Gather all your information, make your decision and then sleep on it. If it feels good in the morning, you are doing the right thing.
Tip #3: Remember what parts of your special day are the highest priorities. By putting more of your energies into the things most important to you, you are able to really make them special. Also, why waste your precious time on things you really are not worried or excited about? In the end, it will show what parts you focused your creativeness and energies on.
Tip #4: Keep moving to get to the end – ready to be married and less stressed! If you get one thing done, it will want to make you get another one done. Use the positive energy you get from this to keep moving forward in getting all those items of planning done from your list. I hear brides and their friends wishing for more time or saying- I got it all done smoothly! The ones who it went smoothly for really worked on things ahead of the deadlines.
Bonus Tip: Be brave and live a little! Making decision after decision can be daunting, but remember, your guests will like a little uniqueness to your event and you are the one you are celebrating so this day should be what you want. Also try not to only think wedding for 12 to 18 months- go out and have fun too!
Good luck and let me know what questions you might have, I love to talk weddings!
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