It’s Okay To Take “Selfies” #NationalSelfieDay

There’s nothing wrong with the random “selfie.”

Everyone has pictures of themselves on their smart phone. If someone tells you otherwise, they either don’t know how to use the rear-facing camera on their phone or they are lying through their teeth.

Since people started creating art, they’ve been painting, sculpting and photographing themselves into the image. Self-portraits document the artist’s own personal version of their history. Rembrandt, van Gogh, da Vinci, Frida, Picasso, even Michelangelo painted himself onto the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, right there among God and all the saints.

Pretentious people, those that want to limit the definition of art, have tried to lower the status of a modern self-portrait by calling it a “selfie,” assuming that if it can be easily done with a cell phone camera, it’s inferior.

A selfie from a cell phone doesn’t have to be “art,” but it’s no less of a self-portrait than when done in any other medium. The photographer holding their phone still considers the background, the lighting, the angle, the framing. The photo still tells us something of the subject.

But selfies, or self-portraits, have more to them than just that.

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When we take a selfie, we are exposing ourselves. When we share them, we open ourselves to judgement and ridicule. Some perceive a self-portrait as self-regard, that if you photograph yourself, you must be conceited and vain.

Certainly some people need public recognition to feel better about themselves. To feel special, they post so many photographs of themselves to their favorite social media feed throughout the day, carefully curating what they post, trying to give the impression they’re skinnier, sexier, richer and happier than they really are.

But not everyone who takes a selfie has an agenda.

All self-portraits serve a need. When we take selfies, we are documenting our own history. Cell phone cameras make it easier to capture a moment, a fleeting feeling. We show how we see ourselves or how we want to be seen. We post them online because we want people to share in our joy or sorrow. We want to be acknowledged.

I’m a photographer, so I’m usually the one taking the photographs of other people. Taking a selfie lets me insert myself into the moments I’m documenting of everyone else. It allows me to say, “I was there, too.”

So, yes, I take photographs of myself. Maybe it’s because it’s a happy moment with my family that I want to be included in. Maybe it’s because I’m in a “mood” or think my hair looks good. Most of my selfies don’t go any further than my phone. I don’t need to post them to social media to get “likes.” I snap a few photos and leave them quietly on my phone camera roll, free of pressure or judgement from others. I take selfies because I want to remember.

I take them for myself.

And, really, that’s why any artist creates a self-portrait. For themselves.

The New Corridor Wedding Guide Is Out!

Iowa corridor wedding guide stack of books

The 2018 Iowa Corridor Wedding Guide is now out! We told you a few weeks ago that Appleby Photography’s image was chosen for the cover here. Now the guide is really out. It’s so fun to be able to see and hold it! And if you need ideas, advice or want to know who the local wedding professionals are that can help you on your big day, pick one up for yourself. The Corridor Wedding Guide website is also amazing for getting you the information you need to plan the wedding you want!

Merry Christmas!

“The joy of brightening other lives, bearing each others’ burdens, easing each others’ loads and supplanting empty hearts and lives with generous gifts becomes for us the magic of the holidays.”
– W. C. Jones

May the good times and special moments of now become your golden memories of tomorrow.
May your holidays be filled with happiness, love and understanding.
And may all your dreams for the coming year be fulfilled.

From our family to yours, have a magical holiday season and happy new year!

Becky & Chris

 

2018 Corridor Wedding Guide: We Got The Cover!

We got big news yesterday and we’re so excited!

There is a local publication and website, the Corridor Wedding Guide, that helps engaged brides and grooms plan their wedding and advertises wedding professionals and vendors from the area. I love this guide because it not only helps engaged couples, but also because of how much Nicky, the owner, works to support local businesses and people in the community.

Recently, photographers were asked to compete for the cover image spot that will be the face of the publication for all of 2018. The submitted images were then voted on by our fellow business owners.

We are absolutely delighted that Appleby Photography’s image was voted the top choice and we’ll be gracing the front of next year’s wedding guide!!! How amazing is that? It makes my heart happy and I truly appreciate being chosen. What a cheery, effervescent sort of week this makes.

I hope you have wonderful things to be happy and thankful for this week, as well.

Happy Thanksgiving.

cover of iowa corridor wedding guide with image of bride and groom in front of church

Outside Family Portraits | Chelsey & Jeremy

Fall is a beautiful time to capture family portraits outside, on location. The gorgeous reds, oranges and yellows of autumn make a rich, warm backdrop for the photographs. When Chelsey wanted to capture her family, I knew October was going to be a great time to use my favorite park that had pretty maple and oak trees. Here is a look at some of the images I got that day!

outside child portrait session with fall leaves kid on yellow chair

outside child portrait session kid on yellow chair

on location in fall sisters together on bridge with leaves

family photo in fall leaves outside

Wedding Details, Part 1 | Kristen & Nick

Kristen and Nick were recently married in the Iowa City area. I love images from their wedding and I want to share my favorites!

The day started with Kristen getting ready at Iowa City’s hotelVetro. We then went to their wedding ceremony location, which was Saints Peter and Paul Church, which is a former Catholic Church that is now available to rent for weddings.

Next week, we’ll show more images from Kristen and Nick’s special day! Check back!

 

Fall Grape Harvest

Recently, a friend who has a vineyard asked for help with their fall grape harvest. I said sure, I’d bring six helpers! Our friend already had a winery expecting the grapes to be delivered that evening, so they were lucky to have a beautiful day and were happy for the extra help.

Our friend’s vineyard has 19 rows of beautiful Marquette grape vines that needed to be hand picked before they were weighed and loaded onto the truck. Marquette grapes are a deep, pretty purple color that are grown in the midwest and used to make red wine.

When it’s time to pick grapes, you have a narrow window when they’re at their peak. You need to wait until they have a high enough sugar content, measured in brix, but not so late as to lose fruit to bad weather, pests or even the berries simply splitting open. Luckily, the dry summer and fall has made this a great year for grapes.

The kids enjoyed helping out. Though they did treat the vineyard a little like a “pick-your-own,” tasting the grapes as they went (wine making grapes are sweeter than table grapes), I promise more went into their buckets than their mouths.

After feeding apples to the horses, my 11-year-old has decided that we need to move to the country, too. She says we can have a vineyard, and she’ll have horses, chickens and cows (but no pigs, because “the only thing you can do with pigs is eat them”). And, she said she dreamed we got a llama for the farm, too.

But, for now, I think we’ll stick with just lending a helping hand at other people’s vineyards when we can.